Crush Reader Ali Waks Adams Shares 5 Things That Turn Her On.
Is this your real name: Yes
Occupation: Chef/Pop-up Producer.
Current relationship status: Married.
Which generation are you in: Gen X, Bitches.
“I Burn For You” by Sting: When I was but a girl, I had a full on Sting crush. I once sat outside Radio City Music Hall one night to give him a letter I wrote on my unicorn stationery. Now not so much, I mean we’ve both changed so much over the years, but back then I devoured the entire Sting oeuvre. He was in this indie film called Brimstone and Treacle where he played a total creepy sex offender…which was not very sexy BUT this song has a beat that is so sexy…ba ba ba da ba ba ba dum, ba ba ba… it’s totally the rhythm of a fantastic f*ck, and to this day I hear it and get a little buzz.
Words: There was a man who I was involved with who would just go “MMMM” a sort of grunt/hum, like “yes…I want it now” when he saw me and it was really sexy.
Kiss Me…: My lower back.
Touch Me…: Pull my hair and slap my ass.
Confidence (in Context): It’s all about context, context and consent. I love a confident man, who looks at you like you are a Milk Bone and they are a Golden Lab, but of course only if I find him attractive ‘cause otherwise it’s disgusting. But there is just something about that power dynamic of “me Tarzan, you Jane -- and I am going to rock your world”, that just gets me going. I realize it’s very un-PC, anti-#metoo, but if we’re talking about what turns me on not what I think is proper behavior, and proper behavior is not really all that sexy to me, I like it a little bit rough and nasty…and when a man obviously wants to rip my clothes off (but again only If I want him to), it makes me feel hot and desirable and feminine.
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